Manuel

I love being a parent but I wish I had a Manuel.
I have so mush information and decisions to make that I am fearing that I will make the wrong choice or miss the perfect choice that will help my child.
Overwhelmed seems to be an understatement and wouldn't it be heavenly if your child or children came with their specific Manuel that told you exactly what to do and when to do it. Kind of like directions mix in with this idea.
Out of all the things I wish for, I wish that my children will think I am a good Mom, that gave them wonderful childhoods and in turn made them happy, healthy, feeling like they can reach their personal goals and paths in life.
I am told that I have to decide what is best for my child but I am questioning what is best. Will I pick right?